Christian Dating Talk
Christian Dating Talk
Is It God or Just a Vibe?
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Dating with discernment means questioning whether a connection is truly from God or merely a vibe based on chemistry and emotions. Kingdom-minded singles must prioritize confirmation over feelings to avoid counterfeit relationships.
• Not every connection is a covenant—some are just temporary vibes
• Christians must ask whether a potential partner pushes them closer to God or into compromise
• Seek legitimate confirmation rather than manufacturing signs to justify what you want
• Look for fruit, not just feelings, when evaluating a potential relationship
• Avoid emotional fornication by setting proper boundaries with time, touch, and talk
• Stop looking for perfection in a partner—Jesus is already married to the church
• We attract what we are and what we tolerate in relationship dynamics
• Healing personal voids is essential before pursuing Kingdom marriage
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Welcome Back to Christian Dating Talk
Speaker 1hello , hello , hello . How's it going everyone ? I've missed y'all so much . Welcome to today's podcast episode . Well , I just wanted to just touch bases , see how y'all doing . Thanks for all the fan mail , thanks for all the emails , thanks for all the love , thanks for purchasing the merch , thanks for purchasing the book 10 reasons whyasons why I Hate Christian Dating . Y'all have been killing it and I do apologize , I've been kind of I haven't been really putting out content recently , just because a lot of family stuff happening . But we back , we back and we live and we got a lot of great things that are coming .
Speaker 1And so stay tuned , y'all . Stay locked in , stay tuned , because it's my heart to watch you become who God calls you to become , to watch you become a kingdom spouse . Be it , you are like God . I am a biblical woman waiting for my husband , or you are a man of God , a man of God who follow me too . God , I'm waiting for my biblical wife , and what Christian Day and Talk is all about is helping build and birth kingdom marriages .
Speaker 1So welcome back to today's episode and we're going to hop into it . You know , if you know me , you know , and some of you have been following me for two years and I'm so thankful for you . If you know me , you know , listen up , we're going to just get into this because I got to teach y'all some stuff . Okay , I want you to ask this question because a lot of times I don't think you really sit in this question when you meet somebody . I want you to begin to ask yourself when you met somebody that you are potentially interested in , I want to know have you asked the Lord , is this you or is this just a vibe ? Is this God or is it just a vibe ? That's today's episode , and so , listen , you got to get real clear on . Do I know the voice of God ? You got to get past all the butterflies , all that stuff , and you got to focus on more confirmation than you do chemistry , because the chemistry sometimes can make you throw you off a little bit , especially in a situation as far as dating , because , if you rolling with me , you know up front , we don't date to play , we date to mate . Okay , we're dating to be married one day , to be kingdom couples , to grow kingdom families , for covenant , and so you want to make sure it's not just about oh , he make me feel good , oh , she make me feel good . Oh , I'm having so much fun , but it's this guy , so let's hop into it . I got some notes over here . We're going to roll through this , okay .
Speaker 1So have you ever met somebody and you instantly said , oh my God , we just clicked , we just connected . Oh my God , this is it . The connection was unreal . You're like man . This is amazing . I feel like this might be my soulmate . Have you ever felt that way ? Have you ever felt that way ?
Speaker 1But then , three months later , you're in confusion and your peace is gone and you don't know and you're praying for clarity and you're like God . Is this someone that you really sent me clarity ? And you're like God , is this the one that you really sent me ? If that's where you at listen , that might just be a vibe . Okay , let's get to the scripture , cause you know me , baby , it's all about the word of God over here . Proverbs 14 , 12 says there is a way that seems right to a man but in the end , leads to death . What is that saying ? That's saying that not every door is from the Lord . Not every man that comes into your life is from the Lord . Okay , it's this .
Speaker 1Okay , bro , you need to make sure you know the voice of God that you are checking and doing your due diligence in this dating arena . And I ain't gonna lie , y'all got it real hard out here . I ain't gonna even hold y'all . Y'all got it real hard out here . I ain't going to even hold y'all . Y'all got it real hard out here . And I'll be praying over y'all . I'll be praying that you remain steadfast . I'll be praying that you don't be deceived into a counterfeit when you wait on your covenant . I'll be praying for y'all because , my goodness , y'all , y'all got it hard . But guess what ? God's with you . As long as God's with you , you're going to be all right . Okay , so not every connection is a covenant and we're going to stop going into a thing and turning that thing into oh , we're going to get married .
Speaker 1You know how many times I've seen it where a girl , a lot of us Christian women we do this . You need to go get my book . If you do this , okay , 10 reasons why I hate Christian dating because I need to help you right here , cause this is how you will lose a good man . And y'all know I'm all about helping you get your man , but we're going to be crazy about it . Okay , A lot of times , as Christian women . I'm looking at the camera for y'all who listened to me on audio .
Speaker 1If you go , go to the YouTube Christian dating talk , that Christian dating talk YouTube channel , if you want to see my face stare in your face , okay , a lot of times us Christian women , we'll see a man that's interested in us . He'll invite us a coffee . He'll maybe want to take you to lunch and you get on there and baby you is checking for every little detail . You like ooh , ooh , ooh , ooh , what that mean . And you text your friends hey , hey , he just said this , what that mean . Hey , hey , hey , he just said this , what that mean . Hey , hey , he just said that , what that mean .
Speaker 1Baby , relax , relax , take your detective clothes off , like like calm down , calm down . He just took you for coffee and you on that day and you can't even enjoy yourself and read the room and ask holy spirit , holy spirit , welcome into this space . Help your girl , because you're too busy playing detective . You're too busy already trying to plan out . In that five minutes you've been with him .
Speaker 1Is this my man ? And you're wondering why you always getting deceived . You're wondering why men be ghosting you . You're wondering why men be like you know what ? I'm cool , I'm cool , I'm good , I'm cool . Could it be because you want them do too much with me ? You want to never run you down the aisle real quick like you . He literally took you on one date and you already overhears talking about some . That's my husband .
Speaker 1Baby , come pump your brakes . You ain't married till you're married . Baby , you ain't married until the ring on your finger in the contract is signed , period . I don't care and I don't care . Nobody say we not married until we marry . It's not covenant to his covenant .
Speaker 1And and so until then , calm down , relax yourself , have fun , because if you do too much , I'm telling you right now he gonna run . And you ain't even checking to see if this is who God called you to be with . You was doing too much . And then don't let it be a little chemistry there . Oh my God , we really . Oh Lord , you trying to join a ministry , he in you trying to be in proximity and you trying to cook and clean for the brother . Come all the way down , come down , let him pursue you .
Speaker 1I understand we are excited , but my goodness , don't do too much too soon . Baby . You're doing the most with the least . He ain't even met your girlfriend yet you already married him in your mind . You didn't totally parked your car and now you're mad when you see him over there talking to somebody else . But he don't belong to you . He is single till he's single . I mean he's single till he married you , hear me . And so he don't owe you anything . And it's your fault that you're in that predicament in your heart , because you did not ask Holy Spirit to come in to help you and you ran off on a thing before you even did anything . So you gotta we gotta really get this together .
Speaker 1Okay , women of God , we gotta really chill out because we're doing too much , okay , and so not every piece is God's peace . You need to hear that . Like , not every connection is from the Lord , not every little piece of chemistry me , that's my man , or you brothers . Not every bad body I'm not talking about like a bad built body . I'm talking about , like , a woman with a nice body . Not everybody belong to you . You looking at the face in the body , oh my God , it's my wife . Calm down , brother , calm down . You need to be seeking God for show , because he who finds a wife finds a good thing . So so do you even know if she's a good thing . Can she really bring favor ? Matter of fact , is she even a wife or a concubine ? Okay , we're going to get into that a whole other episode .
Speaker 1But , men of God , stop choosing wives based off their body , based off their good looks . I understand you just want to look good , but , my God , y'all need to calm down , because y'all out here picking wives because they're pretty , but they ain't got no fruit , they ain't got no power , they ain't got nothing to help you build a mission and vision on your life . And you wondering why you mad as a mug when you get married . You married . I was saying you're like bro , I don't know why I did this . Calm down . You know how many times I've seen men that
Is This God or Just a Vibe?
Speaker 1marry women because of bodies , and they get in there . It's nothing but a body . You better get you somebody that got more than just a body . Okay , y'all getting me already . I'm already going off topic . I'm going to try to get back on .
Speaker 1Okay , we're going to do another episode , don't worry about it . We're going to get back to that , okay , and so the next thing I want you to do to figure out is this God or is this just a vibe ? Is you got to ask questions , okay , and I'm going to give you three questions . Three questions to ask . If you are unsure , okay , so how you feel in that moment ? You got to really be in tune with Holy Spirit and if , for some of y'all , you ain't praying , you ain't in your secret place , you don't deserve to date no ways , because you have not been faithful to the Lord . Okay , let me just help you real quick , because if you're trying to be married , you cannot do this in your own strength . You must have the Lord with you at every point in time on this journey . And if he's not with you , I'm telling you right now you don't qualify . And if you do , it's going to be a train wreck . And so let's start there . You got to begin to ask God and really seek him . And I know it's scary , because what if God tells you , nah , I'll throw it back , how about that ? It get real scary . It's like God , he got money . God , he love you . God , he be at church . God , he seem a little deep . And for my man , oh , she pretty , oh she be praying . Oh , she seem to be a good mother . You know , we be looking . We be like oh , I kind of see why I like her Y'all be having these little deep conversations , which I don't believe in all that .
Speaker 1I don't believe you should have certain conversations until you , like you know some of y'all be doing too much on the first time , y'all being just going to coffee , you hear me , and you are already talking about things of the heart that you should not be unpacking in that moment . You're going to get there , but some of y'all do too much , too fast . You're doing too much . Slow your butt down because you're going to mess yourself up . And the reason I see a lot of women get into sexual immorality , a lot of men get into sexual immorality , it's because you're doing emotional fornication too fast .
Speaker 1Y'all are all deep in these long drawn-out conversations and you're wondering why you're up there looking crazy . You're wondering , three months in you're like bro , what have I done ? You're wondering why . Oh , now I got questions . Now I'm unsure . It's because you're doing too much . Calm down , calm down , seek God . So these are the three questions you got to ask yourself .
Speaker 1Number one does this connection push me closer to God or pull me into compromise ? Because what feel good to the flesh don't always necessarily push you close to the Lord . If you get what I'm saying sometimes , that flesh , baby , that flesh be on fire and you're like man . I just , I just like this . But is that really pushing you to the Lord or are you compromised ? Are you now open to the enemy attacking you because you broke the hedge with your compromising fleshly self , because some of you need to repent . I'm just going to be real . Some of you need to repent . You know you having sex , you know you over there doing the most , you playing housewife , you cohabitating , you a concubine now . Oh , so that's what you want ? You want to be a concubine , sir . Is that what you want ? You don't want a woman that you can truly cover and lead , because you ain't leading her to the Lord Like well .
Speaker 1You got to really get real and ask these real questions Are they pushing me to Jesus or to they self ? And if they're pushing you to they self , that means they're pushing you into your flesh . They're pushing you to accept them and they're pushing you into your flesh . They're pushing you towards compromise . That is not your promise . That is a counterfeit . That's not a covenant . That's a counterfeit , okay , and so if you're praying less , if you're lowering your standards or battling with sexual temptation harder , then that might just be a vibe and definitely not a blessing baby , because that thing is going to take you up out of where you're supposed to be positioned in Christ , do you hear me ? And so I'm a need for you , I'm a need for you to go repent , I'm a need for you to go ask the Lord . Lord , help me and I know it might be super scary to ask these questions to the king and really give that lordship . That's what I got in trouble at y'all , because I was like God , I trust you with my salvation , I trust you , you know , I trust you in a way , but I don't trust you , lord , to send no man , because I'm looking around and there ain't no options out here . Lord , I don't like him , I don't like him , I don't like none of them . They funny looking , I don't know , lord . And so I'm going to take this little part right here and I'm gonna do it the way I want to do it and I'm just gonna ask you to bless it on the back end , baby bye . I ended up a homeless , single mom looking stupid , okay , and so I need you to ask this question are they pushing me to Jesus or are they pushing me to themselves and if they push you into themselves . Are you willing to be like you know what ? I don't think we should do this , because I love Jesus more and , yes , I want to be married , but I want him more and I need you to really get real about that , like for real . I know it's hard , I know you're like , oh , faith , that's a lot , but you got to get real about this . Do you want Jesus for real or are you just one of them , play play Christians ? If you're a play play Christian , I'm telling you right now the end times is too close to be planned . You hear me ? Let's keep going .
Speaker 1Number two the second question you need to ask yourself is did God confirm this , okay , or did I just want this real bad ? Yeah , I ain't gonna even lie . My baby daddy , I had several people be like Faye . They ain't it . They hit me with that after I had already fell in love , I had already made my life plans with this brother , and they was like Faye . No , I don't think this is it , bro . And I'm like , oh , y'all don't understand . He's really nice to me , like he's really awesome . Y'all don't see him . I see him , y'all don't see him . Woo , that was a bad mistake , baby . Oh my God , that was a terrible mistake , but I was not trying to get no confirmation . I was not trying to get no confirmation , baby , I'm being real with you . I want it . When I want it when I want it , I got my man . Let's do it . What are we doing ? Okay , we can fix this later . We're going to have a little sex , okay , but we'll fix it , we'll clean it up later . You see what I'm saying ? Just dumb .
Speaker 1If you are having to make all these justifications and make all these little , you gotta rearrange the scripture to fit your situation . You know you compromise and you know that's just a vibe . Okay , we gotta get real y'all in dating you . When you get to the point where you able to be real , oh , there's so much freedom in just being honest . God , I just want it . I want it , lord , I just want it back . I know you ain Lord , I just want it back . I know you ain't say I can have it , but I really want it . And I'm in a soul tie now , lord , and I don't know what to do . You got to go and really get honest and then you got to be willing to know .
Speaker 1Are you manufacturing signs of this person being a man of God or being a woman of God ? Are you too invested emotionally ? See what I'm saying ? That's why I be teaching too much time , too much touch , too much talk you about to be in fornication emotional fornication and that's going to lead to the bedroom period . Okay , I don't care what . Nobody tell me . I know people get mad at me for that , but I don't care because I know how the enemy like to play and I don't and I'm not going to sit there and play with no fire .
Speaker 1Some of y'all you get in trouble because you have to play with the flame . You enjoy , like , like , how close can I get ? So , how much can we kiss so , so , so , how far can we go ? You asking them questions ? You already out of order . You don't deserve a day . Go sit down and get your heart right . Simple facts , okay , okay .
Speaker 1So you , you saw so literally say like you saw something . And the lord maybe you know in that moment you thought the lord told you something , but then you realize down the line you just wanted it real bad . Okay , you gotta really ask yourself did god , did god , did you tell me that ? Or is this just presumption ? Am I just being presumptuous in my leading , in dating , okay . So a lot of times , people and I'm slowing down because I want you to really think about this in this moment a lot of times , people , I get people saying this all the time oh God said it's my husband . Oh God said . God said , god said , god said , Did God say that ? Or is God silent and still back there where he told you to wait and you just moved on and was like , well , I think God changed his mind . I get so sick and tired of hearing people say what God said with no confirmation . Stop doing that , because you're just setting yourself up . You're setting yourself up , just be honest .
Speaker 1Maybe I spoke out of presumption , maybe it was me , because there's actually four voices that speak to you all the time , and now it's five . Let's get real . Now we got a little chat GPT , we got a little AI talking to us all the time . Most of us can't think for ourselves because now we want to go and ask hey , little chat , what you feeling ? I call chat GPT , little chat
Not Every Connection Is Covenant
Speaker 1. Okay , don't worry about me , worry about yourself , I'm just kidding , but you have the voice of God , you have the voice of the world , you have the voice of yourself . And you got the voice . Don't look at my nails . Mind your beats . No mind , mind . Okay , but you have a voice of God . You got the voice of the enemy . You got the voice of the world . You got the voice of yourself and now you got the voice of AI , okay , technology voice which we can say the world . Put that in the world .
Speaker 1But you got to really really get like , get very , very sure about is it the voice of God ? And ask some real questions , okay . So number three is there fruit or is this just a feeling ? Okay , because , according to my Bible , matthew 7 , 16 says you will know them by their fruit , and so if the man is fine but inconsistent , charming but spiritually lazy , sis , is that fruitfulness ? I'm just saying Okay , because a lot of times we get swept off our feet and caught up by what he's saying , by how he look Me and you too , by how she look and what she's saying . Baby , check the fruits , look at the fruit . The fruit tell you what the root look like . And so we got to get real y'all . These are just three questions , but you need to go seek the Holy Spirit and ask him . What else do I need to be asking you , lord , reveal to me what you need me to see about this person . And , granted , let me go and put this right here , because I already know . I already know I got this type of person that follows me . I know I can already hear you .
Speaker 1We got people who are looking for Jesus . Listen , listen , jesus is married to the church and it's a metaphor . Okay , jesus is married to the church and it's a metaphor . Okay , jesus is married to the body of Christ . And so a lot of times , us women , we doing too much as it comes to our little checklist . Right , we got a checklist . We like oh , oh , oh , and I'm not saying I have a checklist , don't get me wrong . Okay , get your checklist .
Speaker 1I always tell my mentees , but you can join my mentorship in my community . It's the greatest and most amazing online Christian daily I mean Christian singles community period and you're going to get more connection with me . You're going to get more classes , you're going to get more understanding . You'll get healing , real talk . We're going to help you get ready and get prepared to get married , and so join it . I'm going to put the link in a bio , but join that membership . It's called date different . Why ? Because we ain't doing it the worldly way , baby , we doing this kingdom way . I'm going to show you how to get there . Okay , but a lot of times I tell my mentees to you pick 10 things , 10 things .
Speaker 1Go on onto your list for what you want in your future spouse . The top five are non-negotiables , okay , non-negotiables . And don't even play with me . Some of y'all be like I can date him , he ugly . Stop playing . Put he need to be fine in my eyes on there somewhere .
Speaker 1Okay , okay , and it need to be on the top , because I don't get mad at you if you shallow , because I'm just going to be honest and y'all going to be like Faye , you was a mess , but it is what it is . I didn't want no ugly man and you shouldn't want no ugly person either . Because guess what , when the rubber meets the road in your wedding day , you hear what I'm saying After the wedding day is over . That's what I meant . When the rubber meets the road and you mad at them , sometimes some good looks come in handy . You're like , oh , you're cute , I can let that slide today .
Speaker 1And so you need to put what you want , and I'm going to encourage you to be real , because some of y'all do too much . Because some of y'all be looking for Jesus and Jesus is already married to the church and so he going to be human . And so five non-negotiables and five we can work with , we can play around with , okay , and so make your list and stick to that , because some of y'all you want too much . You want what you not Guess what You're going to attract who you are . So if you want somebody who got it all together , do you have it all together ? Because if you do this , I'm telling you right now mark my word you're going to be single for a very long time .
Speaker 1I got friends in my life who did this , who was doing too much , who had all this stuff they wanted and there's nothing wrong with high standards , but , baby , are you that ? And because of those standards and what they were taught in that moment , these women are now 50 , 50 and single . And I don't know about you , but the reason you own christian dating talks because we want a man , we want a wife , we want a husband , okay , and so you gotta be real . So I'm gonna tell you again stop doing too much . What gets us in trouble as Christians in dating ? We do too much .
Speaker 1We need to calm down , have fun , breathe , breathe , take a breath . Oh my God , 10 things on a list . You ain't looking for Jesus . You're looking for a human that you can help him build and you can come alongside and y'all can build something together . Looking for humans , okay , not Jesus , okay , I had to put that out there , y'all . So y'all just go with me , okay .
Speaker 1Next , is this God or just a vibe ? You got to ask yourself why we confuse vibes for God , okay , so a lot of us confuse vibes with God because we never healed
The Invitation to Date Different
Speaker 1our voids , you've never done the work , and so you don't need a husband . You need to be healed . A lot of times , we're looking for somebody to do for us what only God can do , and when you get married and you have not done that work , you begin to place the weight of eternity on that person and it crushes them and you are let down , they're hurt and let down and it just causes a whole situation . You end up in divorce court . Divorce in the kingdom of God is ridiculous because we do this type of stuff . We do this type of stuff right here , and so you don't need a man of God . You need to become the man or woman of God before you meet that person . You hear me . Ok , and so God has to be first .
Speaker 1And I've been married six years now and I was a I was a crazy young girl back in the day . Uh , I dated the world way . I got . I became a Christian and I was dating , you know , straddling the fence and then I finally got together and I dated the kingdom way . And I'm telling you right now , if I wouldn't have taken that period to heal and do that work and get it right kingdom way , baby , tell me right now , baby , I'd be divorced . I'd be divorced so quick . Tell you right now , I'd be gone . You hear me .
Speaker 1But because I allowed God to do the work in me , I didn't fall for another vibe . I had my husband found me because I had the fragrance of a wife . I did the work necessary . I learned how to get over past traumas .
Three Questions to Ask Yourself
Speaker 1I was no longer carrying around anger and hatred towards men because of how baby daddy treated me . I was no longer carrying around I'm an independent woman , hear me , roar . No , I was carrying around a fragrance that invited a strong man of God to want to come and partner with me as a lifelong partner . You see what I'm saying A lot of times .
Speaker 1We especially if you're in America , talking to my Americans right now you are in America . You got to understand . We are the freest women in the world , but that freedom has like webbed itself with a Jezebelic culture where we want to make strong men , a guy , into Ahabs and that don't work . We have to get ourselves in position and be ready to submit . Okay . And so if you got that strong hear me roar type personality , you got work to do . Got work to do . It's going to be painful , it's going to suck , but guess what ? Then got to be able to trust you with a man of God . And if you are a man of God that follows me and I appreciate you for following me you got work to do .
Speaker 1If you're Ahab , if you're super passive , if you don't have a strong walk with Jesus and you're waiting for your wife , your woman , to help you do it , if you don't have yourself together we're able to provide , protect and to lead , you're not ready to be nobody's husband . Okay , if you can't deal with rejection , because a lot of men of God they see women they really are attracted to but they are so afraid of rejection . You got to get past the insecurity , bro . You cannot keep moving this way . A lot of times you just want to be lazy , you just being passive , and I understand it's hard out here for y'all men of God , and I be praying for y'all , baby Ooh , I be praying for y'all . But you got to do work .
Speaker 1If you still stuck and you see a mighty woman of God that you are interested in , but you want to talk to her because you are afraid , there is a spirit of rejection , there is an orphan spirit on you , there's a spirit of fear , and I'm going to break that off for you now , in the name of Jesus , so that you can move forward and build and walk in that purpose God called you to walk in . You got to really do the work , okay . And so we attract what we tolerate . You see what I'm saying you attract who you are . That ain't no law of attraction stuff , that's Bible , okay . And so you got to learn to discern . You got to learn to be very discerning .
Speaker 1If you're still dating from desperation , loneliness will always look for confirmation . Did you hear me ? If you're still dating from desperation because you're lonely , loneliness always looks for confirmation and so you're not going to be checking , asking God . You're going to be oh my God , friend , what he said , this , what this mean , that's because you got work to do , baby . And so that's my time for today .
Speaker 1Y'all , I'm not going to go too long , but I want to invite y'all let's talk about it the inside the date different community , and so if you are wrestling with this , you like , hey , I want to learn how to do this . I need you to hear me . You are alone . You are not alone . There's over 10,000 people who follow this podcast . We are in over 1,300 cities worldwide , and the Lord's used this podcast to produce biblical marriages and it's been a beautiful day to watch .
Speaker 1But I'm just ready to help more kingdom families come together and rise up . Do you hear what I'm saying ? And so I want to invite you to join me in the Date Different community , where this we bold , we courageous , we be up in there telling the truth , okay , and you will be a founding member . To be honest , like anybody who joined now , you get a discount and you get become a founding member . So go ahead and jump in now , okay , there's a group for men and for women who are committed to dating god's way , and I'm not telling you to join this because you're gonna find a spouse . Don't hear me say that . Okay , I ain't say none of that .
Speaker 1If you found a spouse , great is not the goal . The goal here is to point us and focus us on Jesus , but it's going to be a bunch of singles in there too , and so if you find a spouse , great . If not , hey , hey , that's fine . The Lord will do it , okay , but it's in here to teach you how to become , how to be that wife , how to build and be that husband . My husband's actually going to help me do this , because I know I can't teach no man how to do nothing , but my husband's going to be helping me build this thing out too .
Speaker 1So you will have accountability . You will have weekly discussions about what's happening . You have more access to us to ask your questions . I get people who send me voicemails and always reach out to me my mentees . They reach out like , hey , this is happening right now . You will be able to do that in this community . Get an answer right then on how do I move , how do I navigate . It's gonna be so amazing . You're gonna learn . You're gonna have real q and a's about sex and dating and purity , accountability , baby , and just so much more .
Speaker 1So join , join the movement , join the community , and know that this is for you . And so I just want to let you know that if you're serious about kingdom love , you don't need no more vibes . Okay , the vibe is secondary , god is first . And so you need a vision , you need strategy
When You're Looking for Jesus in Humans
Speaker 1and you need community to date God's way Okay , because kingdom relationships don't just feel good , did you hear me ? They build you , they align with purpose and they come with peace , clarity and fruit . You don't want to date somebody and it's empty and void and you're broken and you're hurt . Like I know a lot of people who don't recover from heartbreak . I almost didn't recover , to be honest with you . It's by the grace of God that I did , and so stop chasing vibes , honey , did you hear me ? Stop chasing those vibes , okay , and start discerning and asking God for divine connections and begin to pray for your future spouse , because God one day will lead that husband to you . If you're a wife and you met a God , god will lead you to your wife and God's going to get the glory from it , and you're going to get the fruit of waiting on God .
Speaker 1And so y'all , that's my time . I love y'all so much and I will drop the link soon . I'm working on it now . I'll drop the link in here . Just click it . Join the community and let's go . Let's do this thing . I love y'all . Y'all have a good night . Let's take care .