Christian Dating Talk
Christian Dating Talk
Recovering Purity After Sexual Sin
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We get honest about what happens after we fall into sexual sin and how to stand back up without living under shame. We share our own story, name the enemy’s lies, and lay out a clear path toward repentance, accountability, and lasting purity.
- Taking a breath, slowing down, and refusing panic after failure
- Identifying triggers and uprooting patterns that keep leading back to sin
- Learning from personal consequences and the ripple effects on the family
- Rejecting “what’s the point” thinking and choosing to get back up
- •Deliverance, pastoral care, therapy, fasting, prayer, and Scripture as tools for freedom
- •Understanding conviction versus shame and why hiding keeps people stuck
- •Setting strong boundaries for porn, masturbation, social media, and tempting settings
- Surrendering relationship status to God and preparing to be spouse-ready
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Welcome And The Purity Question
SPEAKER_00Hey, how's it going? I hope you are doing absolutely amazing. This beautiful Memorial Monday. I am just so thankful just to be here with you, girl. Be here with you too, bro. Because I know I got some guys who listen to me too. But welcome to today's Christian dating talk. Well, we're about to talk about so you fail now. Wood. And I know y'all, it's been a minute. Faye has been just on hiatus, just really focused in on my little family, getting settled into my new home state of Alabama. What's up, Alabama? How you doing? And just learning and growing and developing. I started back going to school just to become a better human, just to be able to do what God's called me to do in this final hour. But I have been getting some messages and some emails from a few of my wonderful subscribers. And I pray for y'all all the time about what do you do after after a fall? What do you do when you've been trying to remain in purity and you're walking in holiness today? Uh-oh, we walked into some sin. I've been there, y'all. We're gonna start right here. First, I need you to take a breath. I need you to take a breath, okay? Because when you're in this predicament, you can do one or two things. I don't want you to rush to do either or I want you to begin to understand who you are, who you are. We're gonna look at what you've done, we're gonna identify the trigger, and we're gonna figure out how to uproot this trigger. And story time. So when I was a single woman, and then again as a single mom, because y'all know, y'all know, Faye walked, I ain't fall into sexual sin. I walked into sex into sexual sin and had a baby out of wetlock, and y'all know my whole story. But during that time, I remember when it was such a struggle. Like, yo, I was fighting for my life. I mean, y'all fighting for my life, trying to walk in holiness, trying to remain pure. That's why the Bible is so clear when he says in that word, do not awaken love before a time. That means don't don't put that flesh by that fire before time, because when you're trying to, it's almost like trying to control a wild California fire or something like wow, it's gonna be very hard to get it back into containment. And so I walked into sexual sin. I was promiscuous as a as a young lady in college, and I got saved, and I'm trying to walk this talk, right? And y'all, whoo! Hard as a mug. But y'all, I had to learn how to fast, be very open in community, go and just reveal all my junk to people. Like you can't, but I feel like when you're trying to be like when you're trying to really walk in holiness, but you still trying to, you know, be private, that's a problem because you need accountability, you need someone walking with you. So during my season of being a single lady, and it's not like I'm ugly, it's not like nobody didn't want me, okay. I had to learn how to deny my flesh, I had to learn how to be okay with
Her Story And The Cost
SPEAKER_00being honest and accountability. And when I would I I fail at least one or two times where I kiss somebody too much because you know, I believe that kissing leads to babies because when I'm kissing somebody, I'm not necessarily got my hands behind my back or got my hands in my pocket, I'm doing other stuff too, and so I always tell people be careful. And so I remember when I will slip and fall or do some dumb or you know, and find myself in a situation where I know I'm supposed to be, I would feel so horrible because I knew one, I just sinned before God, two, I know better that conviction of the Holy Spirit is on your girl. Three, what is God thinking? Because he was probably right there, not probably, he was right there as I sinned against him. Four, I mean, y'all, I had so many feelings to the point. I'm gonna be real, to the point. I'm gonna go and tell y'all what's up, okay? Come here. I remember one time I had just fallen into sexual sin after trying to walk in holiness. I had did really well for months, I mean, probably fucking like years, and I fell into sexual sin again. Y'all, I felt so devastated. Oh my god, I'm so devastated. I felt such conviction, such shame, such guilt. And there's a healthy amount of guilt and shame you need to feel. There's a healthy amount, get your butt together, you need to feel, but you can't let it get you to a space of Judas, okay? When you see what Judas and Peter both made the same mistake of betraying Jesus, all right, and you see where Peter chose to go back to the Lord. You see what Judas chose to go and give the give the silver back and can ultimately off himself. And so there's two choices you can make when you're trying to recover from a fall. We're gonna get into this, okay? But I remember y'all feeling so just broken, so just like, oh my god, what in the world have I done? I got my Bible, I was reading and crying to the Lord, reading Psalms 51. I was reading that to the Lord. I was like, Lord, please forgive me. Please do not take your Holy Spirit away from me. Yo, I was I was pleading with the Lord. So, where are you if you've fallen into sexual sin? Are you feeling like, what's the point? Are you feeling like I can never get over this? Because that's what the enemy was trying to try to tell me. Like, you can't get over this, like you can't get free from sexual sin, you'll always be a fornicator, but you'll always be whatever. And I had to begin to combat that with scripture, but not just in secret, I had to be open, and so we're gonna get honest today. Get honest. Because how do you get back up after sexual sin without living in that shame? How do you walk and get back to holiness? Because you have been saved, God's giving you a whole new creation. When you're saved, you're a new creation, your spirit's alive in Christ, but you gotta regenerate their mind and them wheels and them emotions and their flesh, okay? You gotta kill the flesh, to be honest. And so some of y'all, you love God, but you also have a past. Some of y'all don't, you know, you don't really know where you are right now with the Lord. I understand that there's some people who, when they fall into sexual sin, they disconnect from the Lord. I need you to hear that God's never abandoned you. That's a promise. He never forsook you, he's never said, you know what, I'm done. Although he could if he wants to, but because he's such a gracious, amazing God, he's waiting for you to pick up the phone, he's waiting for you to say, I'm here, I'm so sorry. All right, and he ain't waiting around begging, it ain't like he needs you, you need him. And so I want to challenge you. If you you that you that second person where you fall into sin, it can it can be it can be a sin other than sexual sin. You fall into it, and now you're not really talking to God, you're not really tapped in, tap back in. You owe him an apology, and guess what? He's open to receive you, okay? And so you may be going through a really hard season when you fall into pornography, you've been what you've been masturbating, you've been watching stuff, reading stuff is inappropriate, and you know better. And you've sitting there leaving y'all. I during the time when I was really walking that thing out and learning how to kill my flesh, I had to be so on top of it because I was not only leading Bible studies and stuff, I was fighting my flesh, and the same time trying to continue to be a I guess what you call a good Christian, continue to be live a life of holiness, continue to lead other people. I probably shouldn't have been leading people to be honest with you, but that's where I was, and so I just remember those times, those seasons where I prayed and I cried and I said I'd never do it again, and then whoop, there it goes again. And my heart just
The Lie That You Cannot Change
SPEAKER_00would break. And I want to pause here because there are some people you've fallen so many times, that's now you are possibly in a place where the enemy's trying to tempt you into saying, What's the point? What's the point you're gonna get here? Well, what's the point you're never gonna get out of this? I want to tell you, don't fall for that law, get your butt back up. I don't care how many times you fall, just like when my little babies, I have four little babies now, six, five, four, and three. Okay, when they were learning to walk, it didn't matter how many times they fell. What mattered is get your little cute butt back up because you can do this. And I'm telling you in the name of Jesus, we ain't falling for that today. We're not following for the enemy's lying whispers, telling you that you've ruined your purity, that God is tired of you, that you're disqualified, that real Christians don't struggle like this. Baby, that's a lie from the enemy. Today, we are going to expose these lies because the gospel is still for you, the blood of Jesus still works, and you need to go run to the to the throne of the Lord, run run to the Lord in prayer and ask him to forgive you because he is there to forgive you. The gospel is for broken people, literally, the blood of Jesus is for those who sin. You need to ask God, Lord, cover me in the blood of Jesus, and then begin to walk out your salvation with fear and trembling. Meaning, you become a student of what's my triggers? What is what what was I feeling that made me want to go and do this thing? What I was I in in isolation, was I anxious? Was I triggered by old experience? You know, you gotta begin to write these things out and work work this thing out before the Lord and in I guess safe community. That makes sense, and so let's get right into the first point, okay? Because I feel like I feel like I want to I want to be I want to preach to y'all for me on this, but I'm not gonna do that. I just want to have a conversation, and so the first thing you need to understand is that sexual sin is a real it's it's a real enemy, and it's design. Yes, it may feel good to you in a moment, but it's designed your flesh is not going to heaven with you. Your flesh is literally trying to keep you with it, and so you need to understand that there's no no such thing as hell fine, there's no such thing as hell cute. I don't care how good they look, how good they smell, baby, it don't matter. We are not allowing our flesh to lead nothing, and sexual sin is a real threat to the kingdom of darkness. A lot of times we get off because we get to leveling sins off. Well, I just do this. No, no, no, no. That I just do this is about the same as Adam and Eve. Oh, we just ate the fruit from the tree. That like when you look at that, it's like, dang God, you kind of did you kind of went off on them a little bit, you kind of did a little bit too much. And when they just ate uh ate a fruit from a tree, and God's like, No, no, no, no, it's the heart of it. You gotta understand the depths of sin, you gotta understand there's no little sin, there's no big sin. That sexual sin that you're fighting with, that spirit of perversion that some of y'all are fighting with, that thing has been sent to try to dismantle your destiny, to try to break the the break the bond and the relationship between you and God, i.e., make you turn away from the Lord, and it's designed to keep you out of heaven, keep you out of the presence of the Lord, and it's going to fight you tooth and nail. It's gonna be jacked. You hear me? That sexual sin is gonna come at you with everything in its power, and how is the what's the first step you need to do when you're trying to overcome
Freedom Plan: Deliverance, Therapy, Fasting
SPEAKER_00and really put this thing to rest, really get this lust out of yourself. One, if you have not gone through deliverance, that's your first step. You need to go to a local church, get saved if you're not saved. I mean, truly accept the blood of accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior and pray that they will help you get delivered. And so you need to pray, you need to go get deliverance, you need to go seek pastoral care. You need to some of y'all need to go get therapy because you probably have dealt with some childhood sexual abuse. It's a real thing. You need to go and get that help for that too. And then the biggest one is you gotta begin to fast and get in your scripture. Because how do you how do you crucify the flesh? You crucify the flesh by stopping feeding it, basically. You gotta stop feeding it. You weaken it, you weaken the flesh so that the spirit can begin to lead. A lot of us, we we act like we're gonna die if we if we fast. We act like we can't stop fast. We act like we cannot give up one meal. Oh, I'm gonna do a social media fast. What you talking about? Like, what are you saying right now? Your flesh is so out of control, your flesh is so strong, it's got you trying to reason with fasting, it's got you trying to negotiate and and maneuver around what God's trying to call you to. The Lord's trying to get you a place of holiness so he can partner with you and use your life to bless others, but you're so busy trying to satisfy that flesh and not realizing its desire is for you, just like you see in the scripture with Cain, its desire is for you. And I remember when I was told to my face by a pastor, hey Faye, if you do not stop this, you're gonna be a single mom. I'm like, eh, I rebuke you, devil. How am I rebuking somebody who's telling me the truth? That's how deceived and how messed up I was in my mind. Well, I was like, I'm fine, I can just say no, but I wasn't fasting, I had no true community where I can tell the truth about hey, I'm struggling. I was on an island. I in fact, I didn't even give God lordship of my relationship status. I was like, God, you can be Lord of everything else in my life, but I got this. Don't worry about, don't worry about this, Lord. I got this. How many of you have said that to the Lord? Where you've given lordship of everything, but you have not surrendered your marriage status. You have not surrendered. God, if you call me to be single for the rest of my life, you are enough. That is scary to say, but I'm here to tell you, is that until you get into that place that of complete surrender that you're not gonna, that you're gonna you're gonna not find the true freedom, freedom that you're looking for. Okay, so let me get to the
Conviction Versus Shame
SPEAKER_00first point. The first point is conviction and shame are not the same. Okay, we want to make that real clear conviction and shame are not the same. One of the first things you have to understand is this that the Holy Spirit convicts Satan's shame. And so if you've fallen, because I remember I fell quite a few times doing my journey, and it was not fun. Like, yeah, I was so heartbroken, I was so messed up in my mind. I'm like, Lord, what is going on? Lord, I ain't gonna never be able to get past this. Watch your words because every word you're saying, the enemy's taking note. You gotta understand, you can word curse yourself. Your words are so powerful, you don't even understand that every word is a seed, every thought's a seed, every action you do is a seed, and you are planting seeds all day, and you are sitting there like, Why am I constantly getting this type of fruit? What seeds are you planting with your mouth, with your thoughts, with your words? And so you gotta remember, Holy Spirit convicts you, Satan shames you. You need to be convicted when you fall into sexual sin. If you don't feel no type of way when you fall into sexual sin, I'm pretty sure it's sure you are seared and you are away from the Lord, and you have used your willpower to shut that thing off so you're not sensitive no more, you don't feel conviction, and now you're out of order, you don't even realize if you ain't feeling the conviction, Holy Spirit, you're likely on a path straight to hell. Just being honest, I know it's tight, but it's right. You need to understand if you are not feeling the conviction of the Holy Spirit, you are off, you are not connected with the Lord no more, you have backslidden, and it's time to repent, okay? The beautiful thing is you can always repent, you can always be restored, you can always be literally re-reunited with your father, and he's waiting for you to just repent and turn for real, okay? And so conviction says, Go back to the Lord. That's what conviction is. That's when the Holy Spirit comes, he goes, Oh, what's that? He's letting you he's giving you a chance to go back to God and say, I am sorry. Shame will tell you on the other side, run away from God, he don't want nothing to do with you, he's tired of your mess. Shame will make you run opposite from God, and that's how you know the difference. So conviction leads to repentance, all right, and shame leads to hiding. This is the scripture, Romans 8:1. Therefore, I mean, there is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus. Okay, and so the Holy Spirit's not the one bringing shame. If you feel shame, I honestly don't think it's a bad thing. I know it's not a god thing, but a healthy dose of shame is actually good when you're fighting with sexual sin because it's gonna help you get up, it's gonna help you start falling into that crap because sexual sin is sent to keep you out of destiny, to keep you out of heaven, to keep you on a path of destruction. When you're sinning against your own body, you gotta understand sexual sin is a really disgusting, terrible like sin. I'm not kidding, because it's sinning against its own temple, you're destroying your own body. Like, like, just think about I want you to really think about that. Like, dang, every time I commit sexual sin, I am I am sinning against not just God and others, I am sinning against my very own body. Let that hit because that's something that really stuck with me. Because there's so many things that can go on, like even with my daughter, who's now almost 14, because I made a decision to do what I wanted to do because I thought I was grown. This baby's entire life has been like literally the foundation of her life when the God wanted a man and a wife to be together in a house with their children. My daughter's never lived in a house with me and her dad. My daughter will never have the opportunity to live in a home with me and her dad because both of our selfish, sinful decisions. And I get it, people might be like, Yeah, Faye, you know, I'm I'm in my 30s, I'm in my 40s, I'm in my 50s, you know, I'm grown, I can do what I want to do. You gotta understand every sin holds a repercussion, and it's a heavy repercussion. And I get a chance to walk with my daughter through this because she has questions. She sees me now with my husband, and she's like, Dang, I wonder how you and my dad would have been. I, in my selfishness, made a decision that directly impacted my daughter for the rest of her life. Glory be to God that the Holy Spirit and God Himself is going to restore and renew and heal everything that we broke from our sinful selfishness. But man, what if we could have done it the right way? I want you to sit with that because I don't want you to have my same experience. I want you to choose something different. And if you are a single mom or single dad, guess what? There's hope for you. But don't keep falling into the same sin. Get your butt up. If I could get my blood, my y'all, if you know me, you know me, okay? If I could, if God could help me stand up, because a lot of times you're expecting God to take you out of the situation. That's not gonna happen. You gotta make a decision. God's giving you dominion, authority, and freedom of will. You gotta use all three of those, and you gotta
Boundaries And Accountability That Work
SPEAKER_00work out your salvation with fear and trembling. You're looking for God to do what only you can do. Guess what? You praying for God for a miracle. Oh God, this porn keeps popping up on my phone, Lord. It's I keep watching this the P word, Lord. Oh my god, this phone. How about you go get a dumb phone? How about you turn your phone off? Oh my god, every time I get on social media, it's weird, sexual pictures everywhere. How about you take a take a social media fashion and a fool fast? You're looking for God to do what you weren't willing to do for yourself. You want God to give you a get out of jail free card, you want God just to give it to you easy. You gotta remember, as humans, anything that we get easy, we oftentimes take it for granted. We've never taken it seriously to be honest. Somebody give you something for free, you're gonna waste it. But I promise you, if you pay your own money for it, I bet you're gonna respect it. If you put in work for it, if it costs you sweat equity, if you gotta go and and and crucify your flesh and fast and pray and get in the scriptures, I bet you're gonna be struggled for it. And God's doing this because He's trying to build something in you, He's building something in you, and so I'm just gonna be honest. God ain't gonna come and be like, Hey, get out that bed. Hey, get out the back of that car. God ain't gonna do that because it's free will. You gotta make a decision that I'm done doing this. How how long are you gonna be out of the will of the Lord? You keep praying for a husband or a wife, but yet you still kissing on Susie in there, you still hanging out with Jaquan at the movies. Like that's not even fair. Why would God trust you with one of his dear children when you cheating on even him? You are cheating on a relationship with God, but yet praying for a spouse. That doesn't even make sense. And so you gotta understand that until you get to a point where I'm going to crucify my flesh, I am going to sit my hot stuff down and allow the Lord to renew me. I'm going to work out, I'm going to go to therapy, I'm going to go to the gym, I'm going to take showers, I'm going to get around friends who ribble about their walk. I'm going to read books. I'm going to fast and crucify my flesh. Every time this flesh gets big, I get bigger. That's the type of that's the type of literary energy you gotta come with it. Because your your flesh, your body ain't your friend. Especially when you fight it through sexual sin. Your body ain't your friend. Your eyes ain't your friends, your ears ain't your friends. You gotta understand your body is your enemy. And until you get it under submission, you can't trust it. And so a lot of times, a lot of y'all still trying to go to the beach. Trying to go on these little vacations. Y'all need to stay up out of them beaches. Don't be going to know uh Las Vegas and all these places when you know your flesh is out of control. Don't make they don't it don't make sense because you think that I'm strong enough. Oh, I can do it. No, you can't. No, you can't because you can't even get the P word out of your phone. You can't even stop masturbating. Like, so stop it. You need to stop it and stop being stop being stop lying to yourself. You gotta understand that self-deception is the worst deception of them all. And until you get honest with yourself, you're gonna always stay bound. And so I need you to get real. Some of y'all, you need to you, you do, you need to do whatever you gotta do, baby. As for me, that meant I moved in with five other women. Yep, I it was a house full of us. I moved in with Christian, a house full of it was it was about five or six of us in this house, and I moved in so I can see my life. I needed complete accountability because I can't trust me. You can't I can't trust Faye. If Faye is kissing, Faye doing other stuff too. I'm just being honest. And some of y'all, the reason you can't get free because you're a liar, and you need to go repent, because you're trying to get free in isolation. Isolation is the enemy's hunting ground for those who are self-checked or for those who think they can do this on their own. You can't get free by yourself. Not in this, you need accountability, you need a strict schedule, you need a strict diet, you need to arrest your flesh. And until you break that flesh underneath the authority of the Holy Spirit, that flesh don't get to do nothing. We ain't going to no beaches, we ain't going to no movies, we ain't doing none of that. We shutting everything down, we watching kid movies, we we we I need a I need my friend to call me every day. Friend, what you doing? You need to arrest your flesh, and God got me on this, y'all, because this wasn't even part of this episode. But I just really sense that God's wanting us to make a decision. Make a decision to crucify your own flesh, to eliminate any type of pitfall, any type of space that allows for temptation, any type of movie, any type of thought, your phone, your social media, some of y'all need to come off, come off of all of that for a season and allow your spirit to get strong and and and just understand that in this season of sanctification and purification and pruning, you're going to experience God like never before. You're going
Surrender And Preparing For Marriage
SPEAKER_00to have an opportunity to know the Lord your God the way he wants you to know him. And the beautiful part is, it's a lot of times when you get into these spaces and then you stop worrying about what coulda, woulda, shoulda, as God's renewing you and rejuvenating you and restoring you, your spouse is being prepared for you. Because now God's like, hmm, I might entrust you with a spouse. But the space you gotta come to in this space of consecration and sanctification is if he don't, he's still good. If God never sends me a spouse, if I'm called to be a unit for the rest of my life, God, you're big enough and you're good enough, and I can do this. But the good part is most times when you got a problem with sexual scenario, you ain't no unit. So you need to be preparing, you need to be getting your credit together, you need to be learning how to cook, woman of God, man of God, you need to be learning how to buy a house, how to steward a family, how to protect, how to lead. Women of God, you need to learn how to take care of yourself, how to budget, how to take care of children, how to be a good helper. You need to be working on yourself. So you you so busy out there trying to get some that you ain't even doing the work necessary to become the spouse. Make it make sense. It don't make no sense, and so come on, y'all. We gotta we gotta we a lot of times we wanna make this a spirit thing. Oh, I got the spirit of less, and some of y'all do go get it cast out and then get your butt back to work to renew your mind. But it's mostly you, you the problem that you self-check. The enemy ain't even gotta mess with you because your mind's so messed up where he like I ain't gonna do nothing. They already locked up because they can't keep their eyes off their phone, they can't keep their eyes off this weird social media groups, they they can't stop chatting with their ex-boo. And so you gotta you gotta really get honest. I think this conversation boils down to are you experience conviction and or shame? Learn where those two things come from, and in that get honest. This is a space to become aware, become aware of where I am, am I really ready to get free, or do I like my lukewarm Christianity? Am I okay? You gotta ask yourself this. Am I okay if God part the sky right now? Yeah, that's something that really got me, y'all. Like, I understand that loving Jesus is bigger than heaven and hell, but I ain't trying to go to hell, just being real. I don't know about you, but I ain't trying to go to hell for nobody and baby bye, but child by the hell is it's for all eternity. Think about it. That giant is for all eternity, and then once he has the judgment, he throw that thing over into the lake of fire, baby. No, uh-uh, uh-uh, cool. And so it's levels to it. Don't get me wrong, I want to go to heaven because I want to be with Jesus, and that should be your heart. But let's keep it real, too. We is not trying to go to hell, okay? We is we are not trying to go to hell, and so you gotta ask yourself if God decided to come back, if Jesus came back in this moment, where would he find me? And this is to to make you afraid. I'm not gonna even lie to you and say I don't make you afraid. No, no, no. Some of y'all need to understand that the beginning of knowledge is the fear of the Lord. Most of us, we don't fear our God. You think because God ain't, you know, did what he be doing in the scripture that he won't do it again. You think because Jesus allowed himself to be put on that cross that he's somebody to play with. We gotta really, especially as westernized American Christians, we gotta understand who we call God. I think a healthy dose of fear and respect for God that literally gives you every single breath that you breathe the moment you need it, ain't none of y'all, well, some of y'all, but ain't none of y'all walking around with no breathing machine inside of your body. And so, what that means, every breath God has to send it on time, or you a drop dead like that. Y'all, you gotta, baby. Let me tell you something. We gotta get a healthy reverence for the God we serve. And the question you gotta ask yourself if God caught me, if God cracked that sky right now, is that person worth it that I'm laying up next to? And then you gotta understand, too, which we're gonna get into this, that when you are in sexual sin, you are opening yourself up to so many different things. One of them is the spirits of incubus and succubus, these demonic, terrible, horrible spirits, which we'll delve into that at some point. But I need you to make a decision today that I'm gonna get up, I'm gonna repent. I'm going to ask the Lord to purify me, and I'm going to work out my salvation with fear and trembling. And so, right now, we're going to stop right here. Father
Repentance Prayer And Next Steps
SPEAKER_00God, in the name of Jesus, we come before you, Lord, and we repent. We repent for sexual sin, God. We repent for choosing our flesh over you, Lord. We repent, Lord, for backsliding against the covenant and the promise we made to you, God. Father, we pray that you would cleanse us, Lord. We plead the blood of Jesus, Lord. You said that you are faithful to forgive if we would confess our sin. And God, we confess our sin now in the name of Jesus. Forgive us, Lord. Soften our hearts, Lord, if our hearts have been seared, Lord, because we have failed to listen to your voice, God. Give us a heart that's tender, Lord, where we can hear you, God, and give us the strength and the empowerment of the Holy by the empowerment of the Holy Spirit to get up and work out our salvation, God, with fear and fear and trembling, Father. And Father, we turn to you. We thank you, Lord, that our sins have been forgiven in the name of Jesus, and we begin to walk now in purity. Day one. In the name of Jesus, we thank you. Amen. And so I'll see y'all in the next episode. It's gonna be so good, so much fun. You got any questions? Put them in the comments. Also, if you listen to me, I want you to go on over to YouTube because we have a YouTube now. And if you want to call in and talk to your girl, like what's up? Call me. Listen, call me. I will talk to you. We're gonna probably do like a hotline. We can call in and I can answer your questions. We can have a conversation, okay? But I love y'all. Y'all have an amazing day.